The Sandwich Generation and Retirement: Overcoming the Dual-Caregiving Dilemma  


If you're trying to save for retirement while also supporting your children and caring for aging parents, you're not alone. Many people today are part of what's called the Sandwich Generation — adults who are “sandwiched” between two generations that depend on them financially or emotionally.

Balancing these responsibilities can be overwhelming, especially during the years when you're focused on building your own financial future. Even the most thoughtful plans can feel stretched. That’s why it helps to have a clear strategy and the support of a financial professional who understands the unique pressures of this stage of life. The tips below offer a starting point to help you move forward with more clarity and less stress.

1. Start Planning Early.

The best time to begin saving for retirement was yesterday; the second best time is today. The sooner you start investing, the more time your money has to grow. Early retirement planning can also reduce any burden on your children when they reach adulthood. Investing prudently can help position you to be the last member of your family's Sandwich Generation.

2. Set Clear Priorities.

Some goals you may have had ten or twenty years ago, like paying for your children's college education, may need to take a back seat to current needs, like saving for retirement. Determine how much you can realistically afford to contribute to various needs without jeopardizing your own retirement savings.

3. Maximize Retirement Savings.

Always take full advantage of employer-sponsored retirement plans such as 401(k)s or 403(b)s. These programs become even more enticing when your employer offers matching contributions, which are essentially free money. Contribute as much to these tax-advantaged accounts as you can afford.

4. Diversify investments.

One of the tried-and-true strategies for weathering a volatile market is diversification. Diversifying your investment portfolio across different asset classes, such as stocks, bonds, real estate, and commodities, can mitigate risk and improve return potential. Diversification is not just about spreading your money across different investments; it should also consider geographical regions and sectors.

5. Consider Catch-Up Contributions.

If you're at least 50, you can take advantage of catch-up contributions to retirement accounts. For example, individuals who are 50 or older can make additional contributions to their 401(k) or IRA above the standard annual limits. In 2024, you can contribute $7,500 more than the $23,000 401(k) contribution limit.1 Keep this up for a few years, and you may potentially see major gains.

You may also want to consider other tax-advantaged accounts, like Health Savings Accounts, as an extra source of income in retirement. While these types of accounts don't offer catch-up contributions, they can also allow you to take pre-retirement withdrawals (so long as the funds are used for their stated purpose).

6. Explore Alternative Options for Parental Care.

Often, alternative options for parental care may be more cost-effective than providing them with direct financial support. This could include assisted living facilities, in-home care services, or government assistance programs. Don't feel obligated to take on your parents' burdens if other options are available.

A Partner in Your Planning

A Partner in Your Planning

Managing retirement planning while supporting both children and aging parents can feel overwhelming. A financial professional can help you sort through competing priorities, identify practical strategies, and adjust your plan as your needs change.

With thoughtful guidance, you can make informed decisions that support your goals and help you stay on track.

The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. To determine which investment(s) may be appropriate for you, consult your financial professional prior to investing.

There is no guarantee that a diversified portfolio will enhance overall returns or outperform a non-diversified portfolio. Diversification does not protect against market risk.  Past performance is no guarantee of future results.